The Truth Behind the Words of Men

Men are not very vocal on how they literally feel. It would take time for a woman to decipher the words or phrase that comes out from a man. Some of it may be the real deal but women still takes it differently.

At the end of a date:

What Men says: “I’ll call you sometime”
What Men really means: “Don’t call. I may be out with another chick”
Why Men say it: It is really hard for men to be blatant on how they really feel about the date. They just don’t want to brush off a woman in order to keep her as a spare tire for future company on lonely Friday nights.

Getting to know each other:

What Men says: “I like your dress/shoes”
What Men really means: “I like you, could we go out sometime?”
Why Men hide it: Let’s say he really like your dress or shoes. However, this is a sign that he is really interested in you but does not want to come out too forward. Also, men tend to hide his feelings in order not to be turned down immediately if the feeling is not that mutual.

On relationship matters:

What Men says: “Maybe we should slow things down or take a break from each other”
What Men really means: “I want to keep my relationship options open in the market”
Why Men Lie: Men are cruel at this point. They just lie on this matter for one good reason. They just want to shop around for other open targets and if the chances are slim, you would always be around to accept him back with arms wide open.

What Men says: “I do not deserve you”
What Men really means: “I need to bolt out from this relationship”
Why Men Lie: Men are typically afraid of long emotional talks, especially regarding “breakups”. They prefer to butter you up, put you on the pedestal in order for them to keep the “Gentleman” image he always wanted to portray.

What Men says: “I’m falling for you”
What Men really means: “I love you, but I am quite afraid of saying the L word because you might not say it back”
Why Men hide it: This is the most common technique while testing the waters and feel if you are in the same emotional state with him.

So, women be wary with men. Or is it vice versa? hmmmmmm.........